Friday, May 29, 2015

Finding Romance in the Workplace (it's not what you think)



“La mer…Les a bercés. Le long des golfes clairs. Et d'une chanson d'amour. La mer…A bercé mon cœur pour la vie.”

If you feel so inclined, play “La Mer” while reading this entry. It adds to the effect, I promise.

On average, in the United States, we spend 36% of the day in the workplace. Of course this fluctuates significantly based on the role, individual, community, etc. Either way, that’s a selection of your life spent. Why not spend it a little bit more romantically?




To begin with, here are a few definitions of romance: “A strong, sometimes short-lived attachment, fascination, or enthusiasm for something.” “A spirit of or inclination for adventure, excitement, or mystery.” “Love idealized for its purity or beauty.”

Now, even the most pragmatic must have found something to relate to up there? Why is romance important in the workplace? To begin with, spending your time on something that is “sometimes short-lived,” fascinating and spurs enthusiasm will drive creativity, skirt stagnation and create transformational practices. When faced with a professional situation where you have lost your spark, the butterflies of creativity have fallen and nearing the next step no longer seems appealing, you are encouraged to move on or find a whole new box to think outside of.

Whether you have worked at a corporation for 25 years or you are on your 1st year of tenure, re-attach yourself to “a spirit of adventure, excitement and mystery.” This is not naivety due to my age but rather the refusal to settle into immobility. When we seek opportunities for mystery and adventure in the workplace, we are greeted with chances to fuel novel ideas, ask questions and collaborate on items for change.

Both of the above are impossible without connection “idealized for its purity.” Your people. They are the “amour” my friends. Surround yourself with people that compliment your strengths in order to turn up the volume on the fascination and enthusiasm. Strive to get to know your team from a personal and professional level in order to root your daily practice in mystery and every now and then get your mind blown with the diversity within your professional tribe. Delivering a positive work environment where individual passions are encouraged and extraordinary adventures are advised will not only create more profitable businesses but also more contentment. Santosha if you will.

This is the tipping point. Are you ready?

Is the Chateau d’If a fortress or a prison? Depends how you look at it…